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Know Your Options
Before It's Too Late
Most families put off estate planning because it feels complicated or uncomfortable. We break it down in plain language — so you can make the right decision for the people you love.
Will, Trust, or Nothing — What's the Difference?
These three paths lead to very different outcomes for your family. Understanding the difference is the first step toward making a plan — and giving your loved ones the protection they deserve.
Having Nothing
The most common — and most costly — choice.
When someone passes away without any estate planning documents, the state decides everything. Who inherits your assets, who raises your children, and who manages your affairs is determined by a court — not by you.
Who decides?
A probate court, following state intestacy laws — not your wishes.
What happens to your assets?
Distributed according to a fixed legal formula, regardless of your relationships or intentions.
Who raises your children?
A judge appoints a guardian. It may not be the person you would have chosen.
How long does it take?
Probate can take months or years. Your family may have limited access to funds in the meantime.
Is it private?
No. Probate is a public court process. Anyone can see what you owned and who received it.
Cost to your family?
Potentially significant — court fees, attorney fees, and delays add up quickly.
A Will
A clear statement of your wishes — but not the whole picture.
A will is a legal document that tells the court how you want your assets distributed and who should care for your children. It is an essential foundation — but it still requires probate to take effect.
Who decides?
You do — a will puts your wishes on record and gives the court clear direction.
What happens to your assets?
Distributed according to your instructions, after the probate process is completed.
Who raises your children?
You name a guardian directly in the will. This is one of the most important things a parent can do.
How long does it take?
Still subject to probate — which can take months depending on the complexity of the estate.
Is it private?
No. A will becomes a public document once it enters probate court.
Cost to your family?
Less than dying without a plan, but probate costs still apply.
A Living Trust
The most complete protection for your family.
A revocable living trust holds your assets during your lifetime and transfers them directly to your beneficiaries when you pass — without going through probate. You stay in full control while you are alive, and your family is protected when you are not.
Who decides?
You — completely. You manage the trust during your lifetime and name a successor trustee to carry out your wishes.
What happens to your assets?
Transferred directly and privately to your beneficiaries, exactly as you specified — no court required.
Who raises your children?
You name a guardian in a companion will. The trust also protects any assets left for your children.
How long does it take?
Distribution can happen in days or weeks, not months or years. No probate delays.
Is it private?
Yes. A trust never enters the public record. Your family's affairs stay private.
Cost to your family?
Higher upfront cost to establish, but typically far less than probate — and far less stress for your family.
The best time to create an estate plan was years ago. The second best time is today — before a health crisis, a family dispute, or a court makes the decision for you.
Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need both a will and a trust?
Often, yes. Even if you have a living trust, a "pour-over will" ensures any assets not transferred into the trust during your lifetime are still directed according to your wishes. The two documents work together.
Can I change my living trust after I create it?
A revocable living trust can be amended or revoked at any time while you are alive and have mental capacity. It is designed to be flexible — you remain in full control.
What happens if I move to a different state?
Estate planning laws vary by state. If you relocate, it is wise to have your documents reviewed by an attorney in your new state to ensure everything remains valid and optimally structured.
Is estate planning only for older people or large estates?
Not at all. If you have children, own a home, have a bank account, or simply care about who makes decisions for you if you are incapacitated — you need an estate plan. The size of your estate is far less important than having a clear plan in place.
How often should I update my estate plan?
We recommend reviewing your plan after any major life event — marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, a significant change in assets, or the death of a named beneficiary or trustee. At minimum, a review every three to five years is a good practice.
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